GIRLS You need to Read through this AND STAY Secure AND GUYS Remember to SHARE THIS "THROUGH A RAPIST'S EYES" To any or all OF YOUR FRIENDS (PLEASE Make the time to READ THIS. It might save you a life.) It appears that numerous assailants apply certain strategy to get away with assault. Not many people today know how to care for themselves when dealing with such a situation. Everyone should read this particularly each and every woman on this planet.
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FYI - Through a rapist's eyes! Several rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a prospective victim and here are some interesting facts:
1. The very first thing men consider when searching for a prospective victim is hair style. They are probably to go following a lady with a ponytail, bun!, braid or other hairstyle that can easily be nabbed. They are also likely to go after a lady with long hair. Most women with short hair are often observed targets.
2. The second thing men search for is outfits. They will look for girls who's clothing is easy to take out easily. Some of them have scissors around to remove clothing.
3. Additionally they look for ladies using their cell phone, seeking through their purse or doing other activities while strolling because they are off guard and might be easily crowded out.
4. The number one spot girls are abducted from or assaulted at issupermarket parking lots.
5. Number 2 is workplace parking lots or garages.
6. Number three is public bathrooms.
7. The one thing about these men is that they want to grab a lady and quickly move her to a second area where they don't really have to worry about getting caught.
8. When you placed any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only requires a few minutes for them to realize that going after you isn't worth it because it will be time-consuming.
9. These men said they will not pick on ladies who have umbrellas,or other similar items which they can use from a distance, within their hands.
10. Keys usually are not a deterrent because you need to get really near to the assailant to use them as a weapon. So, the objective is to influencethese people you are not worth it.
POINTS THAT WE Need to REMEMBER:
1. If someone else is following behind yourself a street or in a shed or with you in an elevator or stairwell, search all of them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make normal small talk: cannot believe that it is so cold out here, we have been in for a bad winter. Now that you've seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.
2. If someone else is coming towards you, hang on your hands in front of you and scream Halt or Remain back! Almost all of the rapists this man talked to said they'd get away from a lady alone if she screamed or showed that she would not be scared to fight back. Again, they may be looking for the best EASY target.
3. In case you have pepper bottle of spray (this instructor was a huge recommend of it and carries it with him where ever he goes,) shouting I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out might be a deterrent.
4. If someone else holds you, you can't beat them with toughness but you cantake action by outsmarting them. When you are snapped up around the waistline from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between your elbow and armpit or in top of the inner thigh HARD. One lady in a class this guy tutored told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so disappointed she shattered through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy wanted stitches. Try grabbing yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.
5. As soon as the first hit, always go for the genitals. I know from a in particular unlucky experience that when you slap a guy's parts it is extremely hurtful. It might seem that you'll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, however the thing these rapists told our trainer is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of difficulties. Start causing trouble, and he's out of there.
6. Once the guy puts his hands up to you, pick up his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much force pushing own on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up being on my knees and both knuckles damaged audibly.
7. Obviously the points we always hear still apply. Often be aware of your surrounds, take somebody with you if you can and if you observe any unusual behavior, don't dismiss it, pick your intuition. You may feel little silly at the time, but you'd feel much even worse if the guy really was trouble.
FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL. I know you are wise enough to understand these pointers but you will see some, where you will go "hmm I must remember that" After reading, frontward it to a person you care about, never hurts to become cautious in this outrageous world we are living in.
1. Hint from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. In case you are near enough to make use of it, do it.
2. Figured out this from a tourist help guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, Tend not to HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you.... most likely he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER Way!
3. If you are ever tossed into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and keep your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driving force won't see you but other people will. This has saved lives.
4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (carrying out their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON'T DO THIS! The predator will be observing you, and this is the perfect chance him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to search. Once you CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.
5. Several insights about stepping into your car in a parking area, or parking garage:
a. Bear in mind: check around your car as somebody may be hiding at the passenger side , glance in your car, within the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .
b. If you! u are left next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger doorway. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them to their vans even though the women making the effort to get into their cars.
c. Consider the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is seated alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk into the mall, or work, and obtain a guard/policeman to walk you out. It will always be BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)
6. ALWAYS go ahead and take elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairs are horrible places being alone as well as the perfect crime spot).
7. When the predator has a gun and you are not under his handle, ALWAYS RUN! The predator is only going to hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely Will never be a significant organ. RUN!
8. As women, we are always trying to be supportive: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or harmed. Ted Bundy, the murderer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played out on the sympathies
of unsuspecting girls. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked "for help" into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he kidnapped his next victim.
I'd like you to definitely forward this to all the girls you know. It might save a life. A candle is not dimmed by lighting one more candle. I was going to send this to the ladies only, but guys, if you value your mothers, wives, sisters, daughters, etc., you might like to pass it onto them, as well.
Give this to any woman you already know that should don't forget that the world we reside in has a lot of crazies in it and it's better safe than sorry.
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